Wednesday, November 29, 2023

Ronde de Nuit, Encore



Rowan, Vicki and I joined a night rounds team last Thursday. Rowan and I have participated in night rounds many times over many years. And yet, I am shocked each and every time. The experience always seems to need to sit within me for a few days, locked away until I feel ready to process. Now, I am ready to write about it. Letting it out of my mind and onto the page helps. 


An article I wrote about Ronde de Nuits a few years ago


We arrived at the Maison de la Gare center at 11pm, an hour earlier than when we have done this work on previous visits.  The door was unlocked, we were expected. The night guard was seated where he could keep an eye both on the front gate and the dortoir d’urgence.


There were already two new talibé boys in the dortoir that Abdou had brought in earlier in the evening. A local social agency had found the two sleeping on the streets and had sought out a Maison de la Gare representative and handed the boys over.  And there was a third still in the dortoir from the previous week, waiting until MDG could arrange to return him to his home village of Kaolak, many hours journey from Saint Louis. I had met Samba, a nine year old boy, the day before. He had run away from his daara, he has had enough of the abuse and he wants to go home. He has not seen his family in five years. He looks about the size of a six year old child, it is too much. When one has to beg for everything they eat, malnutrition is real. It was good to see him smile as we spoke with him about going home. Happiness was not likely a common feeling for Samba.


The rest of the night rounds team arrived. We split into two groups and set off in opposite directions, in search of talibés en fugue, boys who had chosen to run from their oppressors, preferring the unknown dangers of being alone on the streets to the known dangers of modern slavery they lived with in the daara. it is uncomfortable to imagine what might induce a boy to run when on the streets they are alone, must always hide to avoid capture and punishment.  And so it must be even harder to find enough to eat. At night worse dangers lie in wait, in the form of sexual predators and those who would take advantage of the opportunity to sell a child into slavery in nearby Mauritania. I am assured there are even worse fates as well, there are stories that I cannot bring myself to put to the page.


Rowan, Vicki,  Mamadou Gueye and I hopped into a taxi and headed toward the Gare Routiere, a place where we have never failed to find talibés en fugue. But we were not on the road long before we pulled over. We spotted a group of small boys curled up in their t-shirts, asleep on a storefront step, illuminated by the street lights. Sometimes the boys feel it is safer to risk being found by their marabout than to risk being found by other, more dangerous predators. There is a measure of safety in the light. 


We approached the boys. Mamadou first spoke to a nearby group of men, to ask how long the boys had been there and to learn if they were known. Talibés en fugue. He gently laid a hand on the arm of one sleeping boy, to wake him. He spoke gently in wolof to the boy, inviting him to come to Maison de la Gare to sleep and eat and be safe. Maison de la Gare and the night rounds team are well known as being safe and trustworthy. But did the boy know us? He came. The other boy, too, decided to follow us. We all squished back into the taxi, two scruffy, cold little boys snuggled in the back seat with us.  One of the children was so exhausted he fell asleep as soon as his body touched the seat. We delivered the two back to Maison de la Gare. The sleeping boy would not wake up and I carried him in. Vicki led the second boy. We tucked them into the bunkbeds in the dortoir with the other three boys who did not wake when we arrived. The two new boys crawled under blankets on likely the first beds they had ever in their lives slept on, and were soon fast asleep. I can only imagine their mental, emotional, and physical exhaustion. No questions, no curiosity…just sleep.

Sound asleep in the taxi on the way back to MDG

Back into another taxi, and we were off again toward the Gare Routiere. There are many groups of adults here, selling wares, drinking, cooking, watching. Many of the car and bus drivers, as well as the merchants sleep in the open here, ready to work again the next day. Unfortunately, this situation creates very dangerous conditions for talibés en fugue. A talibé can lie down to sleep, and wake up under a blanket with a man who has laid down to sleep behind him. Many sexual assaults happen in this manner, I am told. There are also many dark alleys and not much light, a good place to hide. But also a good place for trouble. I am happy for my martial arts skills. We stay close together as we search. 


Flashlights shone in car windows, under busses, into alleys. In a sheltered area with many sleeping adults and youth, there was a very small bundle. Talibé. Again Mamadou approached the boy. The child knew Maison de la Gare and he came with us. Two more little boys were found. We walked together toward the main road to find a taxi. The first three taxis that stopped were not interested in the fare. Too many people, and talibés! eventually we flagged two taxis and split into two groups. Two talibés travelled with Vicki and I. Rowan, Mamadou and the other talibé went together. Vicki and I arrived back at Maison de la Gare and led the two boys in. The others arrived soon thereafter.  Now there were nine talibés in eight dortoir beds. But the second team had not yet arrived. Perhaps they would find no runaways tonight. 


The second team soon arrived with four more little talibés. They were all so small! Too young and innocent for such a life. The boys were tucked into bed, with two each in five of the bunks. There were not enough covers. Mosquito nets were used as blankets. Within minutes, all thirteen were asleep. The next day the social workers would arrive and the boys would be sorted.


The social worker discovering their stories the next day


The talibés would sleep safe and sound in beds for perhaps the first time since leaving home. But sleep proved elusive that night for Rowan, Vicki and I.





Monday, November 20, 2023

Jump Right In


Jet-lag is real. But there is not enough time for sleep, so…whatever. I was excited to arrive at the Maison de la Gare centre today, to greet old friends, introduce my friend Vicki, and get a sense of how to organize our objectives for the next two weeks. Walking down the alley across from the soccer stadium and through the gates of Maison de la Gare always feels like coming home. 


Kalidou introduced me to a new group of apprentices studying in the couture program. Several girls from the surrounding community and two talibés will spend a year training and preparing for independence as tailors. Kalidou is helping to train and guide these youths. He also teaches a very popular English class every afternoon at MDG. Kalidou is a wonderful example for the talibés as he was a talibé himself for so many years. He never attended formal school. Nevertheless, he learned French, and to read and write in the MDG classes and taught himself English, becoming fluent over the years by learning from international volunteers. 


Kalidou with MDG founder when a talibé child himself

I met a little talibé in the dortoir. He is 9 years old, and politely introduced himself to me. A local social agency had found him on the streets after he had run away from his daara where he has lived and been forced to beg for the past 5 years. His family is in Dakar, not nearly so far away as for many talibés here. But they may as well live on the moon, as this little boy has not seen his parents since the age of four when he was entrusted to a marabout in Saint Louis and his abuse and exploitation began. When MDG receives or finds runaway talibés or other street children they are granted 72 hours from the authorities to discover the child’s story, investigate the factors that caused the child to run away, including possible (likely) extreme abuse in the daara, and to determine if it is possible to reunite the child with his family. No funds are provided from the government for this service, but MDG will never refuse a child. In fact, twice a week teams from the centre venture out at night, combing the streets in search of runaway talibés to rescue. One night later this week, Rowan, Vicki and I will join a Ronde de Nuit. 


Runaway Talibés we rescued when I was on a previous Ronde de Nuit

While at the centre, discussing with Lala the karate tournament I have planned for next week, a news crew from the television station tfm arrived to interview some staff members about MDG’s work with talibés for World Children’s Day. After interviewing Ndaraw Diop about the micro-finance program and the talibé calamity in Saint Louis they overheard my conversation and asked to interview me too. 



I was questioned about the karate program and the importance of sports to developing confidence and a sense of family to kids who have lots theirs. I was astonished to learn the segment featuring Maison de la Gare and my interview was featured on tonight’s 8pm national news.  https://youtu.be/pga0Dw-kBdI?feature=shared



This afternoon we attended the baptism celebration of the new baby of some dear friends. Mohammed received his name today. I was also able to re-connect with my lovely little Goddaughter, Sonia. 




Our friends recently had to move to a new house, just as Mohammed’s mother was ready to give birth, the roof of their rented home had collapsed on the family as they were sleeping! We are continuously offered opportunities to reflect here on how fortunate we are in the relative security of our our living situations in Canada. The definitions of “housing crisis” are quite different in our two worlds.


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Tomorrow we head back to MDG. And we can’t wait to jump right in

Sunday, November 19, 2023

Senegal Reflections


My daughter, Rowan, my Dad, Rod, and I are on our way again. It is amazing to realize I have thought or written or said this phrase 22 times now since that first trip to Senegal in 2010. I recall the feeling of stepping out of the airplane and into the African sun over 13 years ago. I had longed to see this continent that my sisters and nieces and nephew descended from so many generations ago. Where we all did, so many dozens of centuries before that.


Although walking down the steps of the airplane has become familiar, each trip here uncovers something new, brings new lessons, and still offers a deep sense wonder. At the vastness of the land. At the harsh natural and unnatural justice that seems to reign here. At the generosity and hospitality I experience every time. At the hope that persists, despite everything. At the grace so many seem to attain. 

Occasionally we unwittingly allow the mistake of feeling a sense that we are getting to know this place. But then that budding comfortable sense soon all gets turned upside down. Like when we ventured out after midnight for the first time on our first night run in search of runaway talibés on their own on the streets. Like when a few years after a visit to a daara to help a boy’s foot be saved with antibiotics, I met him again 




and he showed me that foot still intact, that just helped him win a football match. And when a child of my heart was invited and hosted to meet and converse with Pope Francis at The Vatican, because Arouna really is that special and amazing. Like when on another occasion visiting “The Bush” for the first time, hours into the desert to visit a project of school building that changed everything for that region. On another 




occasion receiving testimonies and pleas for help from ten and eleven year old girls who, having discovered education, are resisting early forced marriage. In another remote shepherd’s village receiving astonishing hospitality from those that can least afford to offer it. Seeing people willing to risk everything, even life itself, in pursuit of hope for an education such as so many take for granted back home. And like when a very special young man graduated from university, after having come so close to attempting a desert crossing in search of hope. Watching my 




daughter lead a live video interview between talibés and Commander Chris Hadfield. Helping my son Introduce martial arts and encouraging it to blossom among the talibés, uncovering confidence, pride, and generating new sense of belonging for so many who had none. The terror and triumph of being part of a family’s desperate and successful attempt to save their girls from rural relatives’ attempts to “circumcise” their daughters. Being honoured with a girl child being named after me. Being welcomed and surprised in so many new ways. Every. Single. Time.


What does this visit have in store for us? Impossible to truly predict. But, we will be visiting the remote region of the school building project. There are five schools there now. And hundreds of kids studying, over half are girls, and most of the rest are boys that were spared the fate of being talibés due to the new presence of a school, or have returned from the streets. A donation from a generous friend in Canada helps make this possible. Another friend is travelling with us this time, Vicki. I have no doubt her compassion and medical talents will lead to amazing things. And my dentist donated hundreds of toothbrushes. And my optometrist donated dozens of prescription glasses. And as always, our 



luggage is full of donated karate gi’s. Despite Robbie not being with us this time I will host a karate tournament at Maison de La Gare with Sor-Karate. A day for the talibé karate kids to be the stars. Rowan and I hope to figure out and establish a major scholarship for the rural new schools region, to help keep the hope alive. And so many friends and Godchildren to visit.




More than anything, it is the relationships I have built that keep drawing me back. acquaintances have become friends. Friends have become like family. My many Godchildren. My awe at the courage and determination and joy of the most vulnerable of children. And of course, the draw of Maison de la Gare. As imperfect as it sometimes is, it is an amazing grass roots place of refuge and love and hope for kids who seem to have been set side by society. And to do this with family is wonderful. Particularly to observe my own kids’ character develop through this service and love. And it continues to be awe inspiring to do this with my Dad, who made this all possible, and who continues to give so much of himself, with impossible energy and perseverance, to Maison de la Gare and its children. I am honoured my family and I have been welcomed into this place as partners and allies.